Going Through A Challenging Custody Battle? Here’s How To Avoid The Difficulties Of Family Court

Do you think that people get married with the intention of getting divorced? I don’t.

Divorce can be rough not only on the couple that’s separating but also on the children if the marriage produces any. Separation is particularly difficult when there’s a high conflict co-parent, family law attorneys, judges, or therapists who are ill-equipped to adequately deal with custody resolution problems caused by high instances of parental alienation.

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As if these problems weren’t hard enough to deal with, the current pandemic is not making things any easier. With hundreds of custody cases now happening virtually instead of face-to-face, a lot of them have been rescheduled, prolonging the agony of increased tensions in the home.

Divorce is nothing new, but its frequency is increasing every day. Researchers predict that approximately 50% of American marriages will end in divorce and around the world the numbers aren’t much lower, ranking in the 40–49% range.

Many divorcing couples would like to part ways amicably, especially if there are children involved. Unfortunately, the opposite occurs and the divorce is often lengthy and grueling.

If you’re going through a particularly difficult divorce and even harder custody battle, then you bear in mind that there’s a high probability that you won’t get the help you need from the family court. This means that you’ll need help from an alternate source to regain control of your life and repair parent-child relationships damaged by alienation.

Here are 3 steps you can take to achieve an amicable resolution to a seemingly nightmarish custody battle.

1. Liaise with a parenting institute

Parenting institutes offer support and one on one coaching to parents who are in need of the service. They work closely with your lawyers while analyzing your case and coming up with a workable timeline for its completion.

They’ll compile, assess and tag all of your evidence as well as provide training that will help you cope with what your new life will be like.

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2. Adopt a structured approach to co-parenting

After a divorce, parents, and children need to come to grips with their new normal. As a parent, you must work with your co-parent to do what is best for the child. Parental alienation can be damaging and have consequences on the child that can last even into adulthood.

It’s not wise to badmouth your co-parent in front of your child.

3. Prioritize your mental health

Your state of mind is critical to you surviving a challenging divorce. You must keep your sanity — a good support system that gives you encouragement is one way you can do this.

Families are essential to any society, as many consider them to be the foundation and backbone. If your family is being reshaped because of divorce, do your best to make the process as painless as possible for you and your children!

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